A psychiatrist was deeply troubled by the sadness of one of his dear friends. Curiously he asked, "What's troubling you?"
Came the response, "I've been reviewing the ‘If only's’ of my life. I've made so many mistakes."
Wanting to help he said, "Let's go to my office. I have some recordings I want you to hear."
Sitting quietly he played a tape containing the stories of three very depressed patients. After a moment he asked, "Did you notice that each one kept repeating, 'if only'?” The “if only's” bring about a sense of hopelessness and helplessness, depression and discouragement. All of us must learn to say, “Next time I'll do things differently. I'll seek God's will and ask for guidance before I make a decision."
James said, "If you need wisdom – if you want to know what God wants you to do – ask Him and He will gladly tell you!" Wisdom here means "practical discernment" that will lead the Christian to right living and eliminate the "if only's" of life.
Prayer: Father, may we look to You for guidance before we make decisions and trust Your directions. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Scripture: James 1:5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.